Saturday, June 11, 2011

Broken Trust

The news is filled with people who have unfortunately lost their credibility.. Politicians, Performers (actors) and Preachers top the list ...

When we Break-Trust with those who have chosen to follow us, or with those we are
connected to through relationship we lose more than just our credibility. We lose our Ability! Our Ability to Lead, to Help, to Encourage, to Challenge, to Motivate, to Effect, to Lift these people from where they are.

Why would they listen to us Why should they listen to us?

We lose our usefulness in Gods hands when we break-trust

Character is much easier kept than recovered. ~Thomas Paine (1737-1809)

This again, unfortunately is not a new phenomenon. People have been failing, falling, and downright letting other down since Adam failed to lead Eve in the garden.

The life of King David was filled with numerous triumphs, conquests, and successes. He single-handedly took down Goliath with a sling and a stone. He wrote many of the psalms from which we find comfort in our times of difficulty. He presided over the nation of Israel and was considered by many to be its greatest leader.

But David also learned a hars
h lesson about the importance of trust. While sitting on his rooftop one day (when he should have been at war), he saw Bathsheba bathing on an adjacent rooftop and sent for her. This act of willful self-indulgence led first to adultery, then the murder of Uriah the Hittite, and of course the subsequent cover-up of the whole situation. Only when the prophet Nathan confronted David about his actions did the king ask God for forgiveness. However, the Lord did not let David off easy. The child he fathered with Bathsheba died, there was a constant threat of murder in his family, and his son Absalom caused David problems until he was killed in battle.

Our Sin (Dude! That's an old-fashioned word) always effects Others and always bears a price tag!! "For the wages which sin pays is death, but the [bountiful] free gift of God is eternal life through (in union with) Jesus Christ our Lord." ~ Romans 6:23

When someone is trusted with a leadership role, they are given the opportunity to use their talents, time, and influence for causes bigger than themselves. As they make good decisions while showing integrity and concern for others, they earn trust. Author John Maxwell likens this to putting change in their pocket. However, when they betray that trust, it becomes difficult to regain. In addition, the leader has to pay some of their change back to the people. When one runs out of change, trust is gone. And when trust is gone, the leader ceases to be a leader.

King David's story should serve as a reminder of the importance of trust and how quickly it can disappear. Allow God to mold and refine your character so that your decisions will inspire others to trust your abilities.

Is there a Cure for Broken-Trust YES!! Character!

Is there restoration for fallen people YES!! .. Christ!

Is there a way to regain Trust YES!! Time!

Join Us Thursday for Study-Hall 7pm at our Trumbull Campus ....


We continue our series "The Power of a Credibility Connection"

Listen Part #1 Online:

Do You Want To LEAD! then You MUST Establish Credibility....

Credibility is a leaders currency. With it, he or she is Solvent ; without it, he or she is Bankrupt. With credibility, leaders Connect. Without credibility, leaders Disconnect.

How do I Gain Trust How Do I Connect with People and make a Difference?

There is a reason big businesses do a lot of business and stay big, because people trust them. They know they are an established company. So when you're ready to show the world you're serious you need the "Power of a Credibility Connection."

Join us Thursday Nights at 7PM for "Study-Hall" One Hour that could change your ability to Connect with Credibility and Increase your Influence and Effectiveness in the lives of people around you..

Deb & I are striving to be people of "Credibility" will you pray for us

See you In Church......

And the LORD sent Nathan to David. He came to him and said to him, "There were two men in a certain city, the one rich and the other poor. The rich man had very many flocks and herds, but the poor man had nothing but one little ewe lamb, which he had bought. And he brought it up, and it grew up with him and
with his children. It used to eat of his morsel and drink from his cup and lie in his arms, and it was like a daughter to him. Now there came a traveler to the rich man, and he was unwilling to take one of his own flock or herd to prepare for the guest who had come to him, but he took the poor mans lamb and prepared it for the man who had come to him." Then David's anger was greatly kindled against the man, and he said to Nathan, "As the LORD lives, the man who has done this deserves to die, and he shall restore the lamb fourfold, because he did this thing, and because he had no pity." Nathan said to David, "You are the man!
Thus says the LORD, the God of Israel, 'I anointed you king over Israel, and I delivered you out of the hand of Saul. And I gave you your masters house and your masters wives into your arms and gave you the house of Israel and of Judah. And if this were too little, I would add to you as much more. Why have you despised the word of the LORD, to do what is evil in his sight You have struck down Uriah the Hittite with the sword and have taken his wife to be your wife and have killed him with the sword of the Ammonites. Now therefore the sword shall never depart from your house, because you have despised me and have taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be your wife.' Thus says the LORD, 'Behold, I will raise up evil against you out of your own house. ~2 Samuel 12:1-11


Anonymous said...

Thank you for this message. Very timely in light of recent events. It's quite difficult to regain one's trust when it has been broken. I pray that I don't experience that kind of pain on either side.
Patty P

Anonymous said...

Very thought provoking. It definitely causes one to look at one's self and ask, "Can I be trusted?" & "How much money do I have in my 'trust'?" MS

Anonymous said...

Going through a situation where trust has been completely broken as well as hurtful lies. This has helped me to look at it all so differently. Difficult but to ensure my life by not taking the wrong turn I can now see where and what Christ is treaching me through it all. Thank you for the blessed spiritual food. Love always MMS